Hello October...its good to be back!

Commitment, eh??...Well lets just agree I have a big problem with keeping 'em, that is yet another 'self-discovered notion' I've come to terms with.

For starters, we're in October, which happens to be a huge deal considering I have no recollection of where time has gone. A part of me worries that while I try to make sense of the past, I'll be missing out on the present and while that is a possibility, its kinda nice to live with a blurred sense of reality...makes the flow of life so much easier and acceptable.

With that said, I'd like to pick up where I last left off...

On March 28, we celebrated the 50th Wedding Anniversary of Juan Alfonso and Maura Rosa Torres, my in-laws. The most humble and honest people I've ever met, most deserving of every little bit of effort we all put in this surprise event. It was a Cuban themed affair filled with blessings, kisses, dining and dancing marking the evening as one of the most memorable occasions of the year.

So before I went on a very long hiatus, my last post featured the motherly glow of a very preggers, Mrs. Hernandez. The badass working mom of 3, yep, you read right, 3 beautiful children. Just weeks after that post, Princess Casey Annah Hernandez was born capturing the hearts of many special people. She's brought so much joy into the lives of all those around her, her little soul has yet to know. Bless her heart, tiny feet and thank goodness for those yummy cheeks!

So while this is a very short recap of just a few things come and gone this past year, its a quick re-intro to the wonderful world of everybody knows it all....thanks to Nad, for the inquiry on why I had slacked on my blogging.

What better way to end this post but with a snapshot of our gorgeous blue eyed babe!

Its a girl!!!

Event #3
Caution: May contain sappy and heartfelt words...

Photo: Sasha de Almagro

Just 2 little weekends ago, the baby shower we've been waiting for after SO many little penises, finally became a realization. On March 22, we showered our Carlita as only we know how. With lots of love, gifts and oh so yummy cupcakes!

After 2 boisterous and adorably gorgeous baby boys, she can rest assured she struck gold with such a beautiful and complete family. Her Saint heard the plea and talked to the Big Guy up above to grant her yet another wish, the perfect addition, a sweet baby girl.

While we anxiously wait for baby Casey's arrival, I sit and reminisce about the days when the sounds we heard were caused by WAY too loud music and the nights we spent out somehow rolled over 'till morning. But over the years, those tunes have gradually shifted in a different direction and the nights are sleepless for another reason, while I can remotely relate, i can only assume thats the case for my Carla.

Throughout the years of our friendship I always knew the motherly intuition was ever-present but it was when she cradled her first born I knew she was a natural.

Yea, she's a toughie given she's only had boys to baby all her life but she's a rockin' mom nonetheless and I know Casey will be grateful to have her as a mother.

So as we countdown the days, I just wanted to let you know your not only a dear friend but a great inspiration to me and for that I thank you!

May God continue to bless you and your family...all my love!

Photo: Jessica Lopez

Photo: Sasha de Almagro

Wedded Bliss...

Just as promised, event #2!

As most of you already know, I'm fairly passionate about planning events. If there is one thing I'd be happy doing for the rest of my life it'd probably be this (well this in correlation with traveling). I guess being part of a family who loves hosting parties, I picked up on the "hobby" many years ago. So after my own wedding I decided to pursue planning other people's events, including my dear friend Jenny whose fabulous wedding took place on March 7, 2009.

Jenny and I have been long time friends since we met at our church group many moons ago. As time would have it, we grew older and headed in seperate directions. Jenny moved away to Chicago and maintained a beautiful relationship with her boyfriend Jose for just about 7 years when he finally popped the question and she said "yes". The planning soon began and my offer was then proposed to help be part of her hometown wedding. I had the wonderful priviledge to be Jenny's Day-of-Wedding Coordinator and I couldn't have asked for a better bride. Their beautiful event took place at the lovely St. Benedict Catholic Church followed by a gorgeous reception at the Miami Springs Country Club.

Not only was she just stunning but she was amazingly organized which made my job that much easier. Check out the fabulous details captured by my lovely sis-in-law, Sasha.

I'd like to thank my wonderful husband/assistant for all his help and support and my beautiful Sashy for not only her assistance but her keen eye in photography.

Lastly I'd like to give a BIG THANKYOU to the Bride and Groom for letting me share in their special day!

Much love to you guys!

Birthdays, Weddings and Showers, Oh My!...

Geez, can't a woman get a break around here!
Seems like the very busy month of March has officially taken a toll on me. I apologize to my fans for keeping you in the dark for so long, lol...the good news is I have ALOT of catching up so hopefully you'll be entertained for a few current events.

First one goes back to March 5, Daddy's 81st Birthday. This year the old guy decided to make it a small family affair (for those of you that know him well, know he's quite the party guy) with what makes his little heart happiest, lots of food and chocolate.

He got the grub from the wifey and the sweets from his girls. Sashy wowed him with a delicious chocolate mousse and I made my specialty, marble cupcakes with tons of chocolate frosting. Needless to say his blood sugar was not monitored that night, lol but it was a wonderful day filled with great memories and lots of love. Love you Papi!

Check in tomorrow for event # 2...

Love and Marriage

Just a few days ago, February 18th to be exact, Lex and I made 10 years at the "dating game". Yes, we are married now and to some the "dating anniversary" no longer counts but to us both, it means a heart and box full of memories.
To celebrate this joyous occasion we headed to one of the most beautiful locations in sunny south florida, the beach. We kept it special but low key at the Front Porch Cafe on Ocean and then made our way to the sand to enjoy the rest of our milestone day.

The past 10 years have been long annnd bumpy and not to mention, emotionally exhausting but most importantly, they've been filled with love, excitement and LOTS of laughter. Despite the silly fiascos we've been through, I can truthfully say without those experiences we wouldn't be blissfully married today. So just because we are old married folks now, doesn't mean we're going to stop celebrating the amount of years we've spent together without being bound as husband and wife. Because without those years, or that knowlege we wouldn't be Lex and Mel, we'd be lost...without each other.

10 years ago...

Present Day

Keep 'em coming baby!!

Sweet Escape...

So I'm back...only about a month later...my bad!!

Well as you all know this past weekend was Vday! Some call it cheese day or even D-day(as in Doom's), lol...Its funny to see the sudden frenzy just days before when everyone is scrambling for last minute gifts and reservations. I guess for some its the one holiday where you have the opportunity to revisit the "spark" in your love lives...or make up for the forgotten anniversaries or birthday!

Fortunately, for the hubs and I that is not the case. Our Valentine's Day is always special. We make light of whichever way it plays out because in the end, whats important is not the size of the big tacky bear or heart shaped balloon, its about who you spend it with that matters most.

So this year I decided to play the surprise game with Lex and go a different route. No fancy restaurants, no hotel reservations or champagne...instead we headed to the ZOO!

Weird I know, but believe it or not the man had NEVER been to the zoo in the 33 years of his life so I thought it'd be fun to make his WILDEST dreams come true, heehee!!

The kid in a candy store smile!

I guess he was as happy as Lex to be there, lol...

The "Cuban Croc"...annnd, I'm not kidding!

I forgot my zoom lens (boohoo-loser) and couldn't get a better pic of one of my fav. animals...the white bengal tiger...what a beauty!!

This little guy had just been born earlier that morning!!!

My sexy beast roaming the grounds

Meet Savannah, the latest addition to the zoo!

And last but not least, the Lovebirds!


After reminiscing on my childhood (and creating the memory for his) we headed out to conclude our semi-romantic evening. So after spending a small fortune on just 2 drinks and a movie, I can truthfully say it was by far one of the sweetest Valentine experiences yet to date.

Sure the flowers, chocolate boxes and romantic dinners at uber expensive restaurants are a plus but that will never measure up to the quality of your company ;)

New Year, New Life...

Believe it or not, this year has been off to a very hectic start and being that I'm not the greatest multitasker, I've slacked a little on my blogging...I apologize.

We're about 20 days in the new year and so much has happened since the clock struck 12, I must say I've been a bit overwhelmed. It started off with the dreaded resolutions, shedding the "happily married pounds" I've put on within the last few months and pursuing the exciting goals I have for this year including going back to school and learning to play the piano. Unfortunately fate's sneaky ways threw the curveball and delayed these ambitions just a tad. Between the losses and feuds, the anticipation and/or anxiety (with daddy being in the hospital) you learn to value whats truly important in this game of Life. Call me philosophical but its all so clear to me now, its like I finally had the epiphany I needed to understand what it all means.

I know this may sound silly but for some people, a "reality check" may actually come from something that is not their own reality. Bear with me while I explain...so I watched probably the best film I've seen in a while, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button. Stop right there if you think I'm all over it because of Brad [Pitt]. It has nothing to do with the fact that he's the man of my dreams other than my husband, its about the film and the impact it had on my own life which has caused the lightbulb over my head to flicker for the past few days. I hadn't read the story before but I can tell you the film itself is so much deeper than most people can handle. The story is both heartwrenching and amazing but more importantly captivating. It gave me a sense of escapism and whether or not its because deep down inside I'm an old soul and have a different connection with the past than most people my age, it's a film that has changed my perspective on this little thing we call Life.

I can't really explain in detail how I relate to an old man who ages in reverse, lord knows it'd be one really LOOONG post, but I can say I promise myself to live my life the best way I know how and forget whats its "supposed to be like".

With that said, I'm turning a new leaf and looking forward to a very BIG day tomorrow. The Inauguration of our President. A day which many Americans have been looking forward to for quite some time. Its a historical and momentous occasion for the United States and I'm crazy excited to be living it. I may not have been leaning towards Mr. Obama from the get-go but as my new President I will stand by him and be proud he is our leader.

As for the well deserved pics I owe my fellow bloggers, here you go! Cheers to the men in our lives ;)

To get a quick glimpse of his latest masterpiece, click below!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7L6K3fkwr-Y

"Yes We Can" video...Beautiful and inspirational! Congratulations President Obama!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjXyqcx-mYY&feature=email